This week I delivered a quilt made as a pet memorial gift, from a mother to her daughter. This was a first for Quiltlove, and it was such a sweet gesture that I wanted to feature it on my blog. Pet memorial gifts that are appropriately warm and comforting can be difficult to find. I hope this idea is helpful for people mourning the loss of a pet. Big hugs to you!
The Loss of a Pet
The loss of a pet can be a traumatic event. According to Harvard Health Publishing, this particular form of loss is unique in a number of ways, given that pets may die naturally or through accidents. However, pets can also die through euthanasia, which means that the pet owner decides when their pet is put down. Furthermore, pet owners may lack closure if pets are lost or run away. It can therefore be helpful to have some coping strategies on hand in the event of the loss of a pet.
Having been raised in a household without pets, I was surprised when I found myself so attached to Pink Nose, a farm cat that “came with” our home. Originally, I was baffled and upset that the seller would leave her pet behind. Over time, I grew to love Pink Nose, and after eight years together, I was crushed when she died in the fall. The same goes for my boys, who went from fear of animals, to love to the best kind of sadness.
As an outdoor farm cat, Pink Nose simply vanished one day, making closure particularly hard for my sons. “Maybe she’s coming back?” they would ask. Or “She’s probably just on an adventure…” Eventually, we’ve learned to move on and we are all excited to welcome new kittens to our farm this August (stay tuned!).
Having personally felt the tenderness that comes with the loss of a pet, I was moved to receive a request to create a pet memorial quilt.
Creating a Pet Memorial Quilt
Have you, or someone you love, recently lost a pet? A memorial quilt is a one of a kind way to remember a furry friend. Quiltlove quilts weigh four pounds and are backed with soft sherpa, making them extra comforting during times of grief.
Accordingly, here are a few tips for creating a meaningful pet memorial quilt:
It’s as easy as that! Scroll down for a few more photos of this recent, beautiful pet memorial quilt made in the popular color palette Peony.
I’m happy to share that the recipient loved her quilt! It was such a special way to honor her dear cat, Snowball. Happy snuggling to her!
It turned out so beautiful, thank you for doing such an amazing job… I love it!
Nicole
Have you or a loved one lost a pet recently? What did you do to cope with this loss? Did anything in particular help with grieving? I would love to hear from you.
As always, thanks for reading.
Warmly,
